A common custody question is whether one parent can take the children out of state without returning. If a custody order exists, the custodial parent usually needs permission from the court or the other parent. But without an order, can a parent legally leave the state with a child? In this month’s blog, we explore when such moves are allowed or restricted.

Custody Agreements and Parenting Plans

When a divorce involves children, the court establishes a custody agreement that both parents must follow. This agreement outlines who has legal custody (the right to make decisions for the child) and physical custody (where the child primarily lives).

If your child custody hasn’t ended yet, then your ex cannot simply decide to move to another state or take the child on an extended trip out of state without discussing it with you.

Related: Learn more about when child support ends in California here.

Move-Away Cases: Permanent Relocations

A “move-away case” occurs when a parent wants to make a permanent move out of state. If one parent has sole custody, they may have more freedom to move. However, in cases of joint custody, the moving parent must either get the other parent’s consent or obtain a court order.

If both parents are open to a move but need to adjust their parenting plan, a new agreement can be created. For example, a different visitation schedule might allow the non-moving parent more extended time with the child during vacations or school breaks.

The Risks and Penalties of Leaving Without Permission

If a parent leaves the state with a child without obtaining the necessary permissions, they could face legal consequences. For instance, taking a child out of state in violation of a custody order may be considered parental kidnapping in California. This can be a serious charge that comes with severe penalties, including jail time or hefty fines.

Steps to Take if You Suspect a Violation of Custody Terms

If you believe your ex may be planning to leave the state with your child without permission, there are steps you can take to protect your custody rights.

  • Document the Custody Agreement: Have copies of the official custody order readily available, showing the specific terms regarding travel and relocation.
  • File a Motion if Necessary: If your ex won’t communicate or is actively planning to leave against the agreement, file a motion with the court to prevent the unauthorized relocation.
  • Know the Warning Signs: If your ex suddenly starts packing belongings or gives notice of a job transfer far away, consider discussing these changes with your attorney to ensure your rights are safeguarded.

Consult With Us

At Family Law Richard E. Young & Associates, we’re here to help you protect your rights and your family’s best interests. Contact us at (949) 951-9529 for guidance on custody agreements, parental rights, and what steps to take if you’re concerned about relocation issues. Let us stand by your side to ensure your rights – and your child’s – are safeguarded.