There is trouble in every happy marriage. Couples fight for various reasons and there is always a difference of opinion. But when one sees no light at the end of the tunnel for their marriage, it is time to consider divorce as an option. Determining whether your failing marriage is beyond repair now is definitely not an easy decision to make. There are so many variables that come to mind. The uncertainty of what will happen next can be mind numbing and paralyzing. Here are some signs that you should consider getting a divorce.
1) Indifference to each other has become quite common.
Indifference for an extended period of time for your partner is an early sign that things are about to go south. When you stop caring about what your significant other is doing or thinking, it is extremely difficult to come back from this point. With such emotions, one loses the ability to listen and connect even on a basic level.
2) You feel bitter resentment for your relationship.
It is a definite route to divorce when you start feeling resentment for your partner. Experts believe that when negative feelings flood you over every time you think about your partner, the marriage is about to end. This also includes when both individuals are no longer interested in communicating properly to reach a solution – mainly because they are too angry and resentful. The frustration built up due to resentment leads to worse consequences.
3) You can’t get rid of drama.
Constant fighting, cold shoulders, silent treatments, leaving and then returning – does it sound like a routine now? No one should be in this cycle. It is mentally and emotionally draining. If it feels like whatever you do, you just can’t escape the drama, then it’s a red flag again. One needs to sit down and talk everything out like adults, even if it is the topic of divorce or separation.
Divorce is a messy affair to deal with. If you have taken the final decision for it, then you need a good divorce lawyer to get you through the legal structure of the entire process. Here at Family Law Richard E. Young & Associates, we have a team of highly experienced lawyers who deal with legal cases for divorce, custody, visitation, support, and much more. Call us at (949) 951-9529 for consultation with us. Check our website for more information.