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The Do-Nots when Filing for Bankruptcy

If you have come to the conclusion that filing for bankruptcy is your best option to eliminate your debts, be carefulIf you find yourself in a difficult financial situation due to high medical bills, credit card debt, loss of income, or a recent divorce, your debts are more than likely piling up. If you have come to the conclusion that filing for bankruptcy is your best option to eliminate your debts, be careful. You want to make sure the process goes as smoothly as possible. One way to ensure that is by avoiding the following mistakes that are commonly made prior to or during the filing process.

Do Not Transfer Property

People often make the mistake of transferring their assets to their relatives.  By assets we mean the property you own regarded as having value and available to meet debts. You may be under the impression that those will be safe from the bankruptcy proceedings. That is completely false and transferring could be construed as fraudulent by the court, even if you had no intention of concealing them.

Do Not Pay Specific Creditors

Any out of the ordinary payments to pay off a debt entirely can be considered preferential transferYou would think paying your creditors would improve your chances of obtaining bankruptcy, but this could potentially harm your case. Any out of the ordinary payments to pay off a debt entirely can be considered preferential transfer. Basically, what this means is the creditor you paid off received payment over other creditors that hold the same weight. If this were to come up, it would delay your filing and the bankruptcy trustee could sue the creditor to get the money you’ve paid back so it can be distributed equally.

Do Not Use Credit Cards

This goes without saying, but let this serve as a reminder. If you are filing for bankruptcy one of the first things you should do is stop using credit cards immediately. No more luxuries; it’s time to buckle down. Which also means no more cash advances against your credit cards. Using a debit card directly connected to your bank account is strongly recommended for daily purchases.

Do Not Mishandle Extra Money

Do Not Mishandle Extra MoneyTo be clear, the only money that should be deposited into your bank accounts should come from sources of income i.e. your job or work that you do outside of your job. You may have friends or family that are trying to help you overcome your financial burdens. While their generosity is appreciated, you want to avoid depositing it directly into your account as it can give the appearance of fraud.

Do Not Count On Future Payments

Keep in mind that any future payments you are expecting to receive and your current funds are part of your bankruptcy estate.  Future payments include an inheritance you could be receiving or any lawsuit settlement you have been expecting. Once you file, any money you receive will be seized and used to repay your creditors.

If you are preparing to file for bankruptcy keep these tips in mind. We are aware this can be a difficult time for you and your family, which is why we offer our guidance based on your unique situation for the best possible outcome.

Can Divorce Lead to a Positive Outcome?

Can Divorce Lead to a Positive OutcomeThe moonlight shines through the window, revealing the empty, unruffled space beside you on the bed. It’s 2:00 AM, and after yet another nightly squabble, you and your partner can no longer engage with each other in the same cherished manner as times gone by. Divorce seems to be the one option the both of you can come to agree upon. And yet, as you toss and turn through the night, you can’t help but wonder: is divorce ever the right thing to do?

We at Family Law Richard E. Young & Associates understand the difficulties of a stressful marriage, not only on the partners, but on the children involved as well. Indeed, divorce can be stressful; however, it can be the start of a healthier endeavor for every member of the family. According to recent psychological studies of divorced couples, divorce can be the silver lining to a rocky relationship and difficult family situation.

Cutting Unhealthy Ties

Often, a marriage faces failure when the spouses lack proper correspondence of thoughts, intentions, and feelings. The fact that you may differ with your spouse is not something that could necessarily be bad, but it is the obvious miscommunication and dismissive cooperation that creates the problems. Divorce allows for these strained ties to finally be severed. The tensions caused by combative mindsets and actions are certainly not healthy for any physical or emotional state. Through divorce, you can put an end to the harmful anxiety and stress issuing from a failing marriage.

Improved Family FoundationThrough divorce, you can help provide a more supportive and attentive environment for your children that is no longer bogged down by negativity and incompatibility.

One of the biggest qualms of a divorce usually entails the children’s reactions to the divorce proceedings. Many couples remain in an unhealthy marriage in hopes of providing their children with a stable two-parent household. However, if there are constant arguments between the parents and a lingering disharmony within the household, there is nothing remotely ‘stable’ about this situation. In fact, these circumstances can greatly damage the emotional psyche of a child and further confuse their understanding of what a successful relationship should be.

Through divorce, you can help provide a more supportive and attentive environment for your children that is no longer bogged down by negativity and incompatibility.

A New Beginning

A successful marriage is truly a beautiful thing; however, the keyword here is “successful.” When a relationship is wrought upon with distress, ill-communication, or a loss of intimacy, a mere argument becomes a much more amplified issue within a marriage than any other social institution.  Nuptial relationships involve more than just a convergence of feelings, it necessitates the cooperation between financial, communal, and familial responsibilities. Thus, a challenged marriage not only weakens emotion and intimacy, it shakes the foundation of every asset that had once been individualized.

Initiating a divorce takes courage and faith—a faith that something better and brighter is ahead.Although divorce proceedings can be taxing, with the help of a fully instilled and detailed agreement, your assets can be properly and fairly managed, which will ultimately benefit your forthcoming lifestyle. Though it’s the end of a significant relationship in your life, divorce will provide you with a second chance to seek the happiness you heartily deserve. The end to the constant arguments plaguing your days and nights will finally be found, and an emotional rejuvenation is certain to result.

Initiating a divorce takes courage and faith—a faith that something better and brighter is ahead. If you have any comments or concerns about divorce, please feel free to send us a comment below. We’re always ready to lend an ear and a helping hand.

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